Just ask yourself this one question - if this girl was born to some regular family would people be as upset with her? If not, then why is it her fault that she was born to a famous father?

If you believe that no girl should marry against her parents' wishes, then maybe I'll agree with you.

Its purely a family affair media is doing too much in case of celebrities. Look at Ash-Abhi wedding or their karwachouth or Dhoni-Deepika's looks and smilesin the 20-20 match at mumbai with Aus.

Media is not going behind their family affair.

They are coming behind media seeking protection

Mediapersons are not saints to ingore them.

Whatever may be truth, Chiru harassed Udaykiran and deserves it. It is not good to crush someone like that and he did the same to suman in past

Coming to marriage as a father , none would accept it and Chiru did right thing but Fate wont leave him as a sin committed person

Hey,

Media and you guys already decided the fate and what should happen to some one. In every family, there are some problems some how or other. It is because, Chiru is a Celebrity, every personal matter has a become a law and order for all the people.

When you have such a big family, misunderstandings bound to happen. I don't think, Chiru spoiled Suman and Uday Kiran. They themselves should be blamed for lack of palnning.

You also would have committed many sins in your life. None will come out as you are a such a useless idoit.

Nice article
Thx 2 telugu cinema

Srija keep on telling that threat from her family and chiru fans ..That shows her immaturity

Sirish states that before marriage no one physically harassed him but he got threat mails and phone calls..Then why he is not showing those mails ??

Even chiru knows about sirish before one year(as per srija statements) ..But chiru not used his power.that shows chiru's character...

Bcz of money only sirish marraied her

I hope chiru sir will come from these problems asap.

This is utterly senseless article with stupid conclusions.
Who have to basically analyze the circumstances leading to her action. Not the ones happend after.
She revealed her love a year back to the parents which is very perfect of a good girl.
Then what happend, instead of a reply like 'ok Srija, you are too young for marriage now. Let your studies finish. Then if you still like him we will definitely consider him. But for now focus on studies".
Instead they tried to prevent her from meeting him by house arrest for a year.
Why people are ignoring this very important aspect. This severe action would act on the sychlogical part of the brain for any human. If you force too much, there will be equal and opposite reaction. Like Srija said, her love increased more and more because she was kept under arrest.
This shows the negative approval of her proposal by her parents. So how is she going to believe them that if she waits for some more years, tehy are going to allow her with this guy. Given the background her family with lot of fans and revolver holding angry babai,influence in the society, will make her think that she is not going to get waht she wanted for ever. Instead they will force somebody on her like what happend to her sister.
This aspect of her mind is very important which we are all ignoring. If it were a normal family then one can expect a change in their parents. Where as this family is never going to change and with time passing things can become more tough for her. She may not even be able to talk to him on phone.
Why she is not bothered about her mom is, it apprears her mom threatened him to leave her daughter alone. She talked to him directly. No mother will do a drastic step like this unless she is of 'Suryakantham' nature. Usually mom's are on daughters side and understanding. here, the case is opposite.
SO better we analyze the parents mis behavior towards a teenager. They should have approached differently with tender love and understanding and allowed her to go to school and behave normally. Then things would have taken tehir own course.

Mr krishna,

If your in chiru position what you will do

So you will tell like this to your daughter "studies is imp , so concentrate on ur studies after completion of ur studies marry him(who is having criminal background)"

As a father no one will take that step yar think globally

@krishna

hi Mr. krishna whatever you said above may true but

can you tell me the way of your approach

if you were in the same situation i mean your sister/daughter do same like srija.

your answer is required
then nobody will comment about this issue please........

This issue is related to entirely Chiru family and this kind of issues are happening quite regularly. Being a high profile Celebrity, everybody is suggesting what to do, what not to do.

Please leave this to their family alone. None of us, are going to feed them when they are in trouble.

EVERY HUMAN BIENG SHOULD APPRECIATE
SRIJA AND BLESS THE NEW COUPLE.I WOULD SAY THIS IS THE LANDMARK STEP FOR LOVERS WHO ARE BIENG SUPPRESED FROM STUPID CUSTOMS LIKE CASTE CREED .THIS IS A BIG SLAP FOR PARENTS WHO WOULD EXPECT THEIR CHILDREN DANCE FOR THEIR TUNES ACTS AGAINST ONES INTENTION AND INTERESTS. THIS THE TIME TO SYMPATHY AND SUPPORT FOR YOUNG COUPLE WHO PROVED HOW CAN AN INDIVIDUAL CAN LEAD THEIR LIFE BY TAKING SUCH GOOD DECISION


ALL THE BEST AND HAPPY MARRIED LIFE SRIJA ANS SIRISH

@ramesh
Hi Ramesh,
I am truely a father of 18 year old girl and 15 year old son. But ofcourse the diff. is I am in US. But anyway, to answer your question, what I will do is:
It is most common thing in 2007 that a girl have a boy friend (whether in love or not). One has to live with modern trend and understand teen generation.
I would definitely say to my daughter "I do agree, but this is not an age for marriage. how are going to feed your selves. think about it, and focus on studies only. If you take any drastic step you will not receive any parental support economically." More importantly, we definitely not arrest her which will force her to rebel.
to '@response to krishna' chiru did not know of his criminal background before. It came to the light after fans digged into.
Hey, it is very simple logic. If you leave them loose, I am sure they would have fight themselves and seperated in due course. But tightening only made their will power get stronger.
Remeber and view 'Maro Charitra' Movie.

Manaku idantah jaragaledu kabatti..emaina matladavachhu

but if you assume yourself to be in chiru's shoes, you will feel the real pain.

God only saves Srija from that idiot

ITS NONE OF OUR BUSSINESS.



PLZ LEAVE THIS ..MATTER..


THAN Q ..

how a girl in house arrrest (if you think she is house arrested) can come out of her house without any one accompanying her?.. for me it looks like she was stopped from going to college but not from free living..secondly, srija herself told that her family knows abt her love so if interested chiranjeevi should have eliminated him a long ago (he is capable in one or other way..eg:mohan babu) but he didnt. When the media interviewed sirish's frens.. one of his close pal told that Srija's parent asked her to wait for couple more years and then they will go ahead if they are still in love..review all these things before you comment the behaviour of chiranjeevi and family.. coming to your daughter..why dont you encourage her to fall in love and elope from home yourself if you are really that broad minded?..stop talking bullshit man..

to krishna.....
comeout of your blind hate against chiru and see the facts

naa kodaka nee pallma/wife gaani edo nallodu,mkkugaaditho (drug addict) to lecipottey telisedi..................
pakkodi intlo vishyamaanki maathram ikkada pedda speech isthannau lk bal

You are writing as if you are born and brought up in US. When you are in India, you need to practice and follow indian rules. Where parents are equal to god and they take care of everything from Education to until their death. So, whatever you are saying doesn't apply here.

Whereas in US, children brought up such that, they are open minded and after 15 years of age, even society encourages them to go out from the family and start fresh life. Educational loans are also provided.

You fucking rules doesn't apply in India.....Ass hole.

I feel for Chiranjeevi and his family. No one deservs this. But, the blame goes to latest movie trends by glorifying love marriages. It is ok to hurt parents as long as they marry some one they think they love. Rich girl marrying a popper is a fad. Look at new movie Devadas, senator's daughter marrying a street side person. What happens to Srija if this guy dumps her? Who will she ask for protection?

Please respect your parents.

what srija did is not wrong becuase her sister engaged to uday kiran and chiranjeevi stopped it because got scared of losing support from his caste. srija ran away scared that her marriage will be stopped like her sister marrriage. kukka kaatu ki cheppu debba ante ide. cinemalo hero but he house arrest his daughter. chiranjeevi and pscyo kalyan gallani jail lo pettali

dont u guys have better stuff to talk about? srija, her husband and chiru are not ur family member or relative or friend. why the ehck do u care where they live or die?

when will u guys learn to mind ur own business?

talk about some important stuff in the world. lets talk about investments.

To: Stop the blody crap.

Which subjects you like. Lets talk.
Take it easy it only the views of the readers.

heard srija's husband and uday are distant cousins.

to chiru,
lets talk about investments , what shares are good and which ones r strong picks, new ipos etc

this will help all telugu readers invets money into shares/stocks.

I live in teach in US. Every day I see and here thirteen to 15 years engage in sexual activities. They will have one night stands. Some of their parents allow young girls to bring thier boy friends( Non Indian parents)and introduce them to us on bring a plate get together. On average those girls will have atleast 10 to 15 partners before they settle and get married. So you want us to believe that you are encouraging and accepting that way with your children. What a hypocrate. Every body knows that sirish has used his charm and married her for her money. If he really talks about love ask him to say openly and sign an agreeement infront of media that he doesnot want one single rupee of chiru and will do hard work and go to US as like all of us. Then people will respect them. He and his father planned very carefully to get crores of rupees of assets. It is criminal brian and criminal mentality. Once you are major no one can force sirisha to get married to another guy. But he brain washed her. With two petorl bunks How can sirish take her to london to honeymoon?

Tappau anta chesevalladi. Mana cinemaaalu adataaaniki media kavali. Manam tappu chestey media pattincukokudadu. Andaru media meeda comment cheyyatam chaaala vichitram gaaa undi

To All

Please don't give pain to a father, whos lost her daughter..Please observe her Body Lounguage..at the time of Wedding & at Delhi with Media..why she is asking grand welcome..she married & she has to live with her husband...she should not give any pain to her parents..because they lost everything.....everything...

US or India, we have to find balance in our values. If Parents are not willing to see the children's wishes then sometimes they have to go against and marry, I know many couples who do this and later reconcile, especially inter caste marriages. In US also it is not true everyone has 10-15 partners before settle, many people marry and settle with first date only. Their culture is different than ours and if you raise children here they will be like that only, teach good values and it will be better that is all. Chiru's daughter can only learn wiht time, depending on her/her hubby's commitment to one another. She may or may not have done right. Rich kids have everything but true love and freedom, like parrots in golden cage. Only time can tell if her choice was right or not.

Also, it is really a myth/lie that all arranged marriages work out - for example legend NTR's granddaughter who committed suicide in US, wealthy family, all arranged only but nobody listened to her wishes and she was continuesly plagued by dowry problems.Love marraiges can end in failure too if the decision is immature and partners don't have respect for one another. Let us be willing to give this couple time, understand that just because her parents have money does not mean they are understanding.

hi guyz..

i dnt understand what went wrong with u.. parents have expectations abt their children..its natural too.. n children cannot be selfish.. what srisha told to media is simply rubbish n i dnt see any regrets in her eyes.. that itself shown hw mean she is.. hw can she say "its parents duty to give all the necessacities to children and they cant judge their partners" come on parents are not machines n they know more than us.. abt chiru's character, he has done nothing with sirish though he knows him since 4 years.. it itself shows his character.. if he wants, he would have use his power long back.. so srija's comments abt chiru is rubbish n foolish.. i can understand the pain of chiru family.. i am not opposing any love marriage kind of things.. bt the way they behaved (srija & sirish) is completely wrong n hurting.. they would have behave more gracefully instead going to court for protection.. srija will realise her mistakes when the same things happen with her children in future.. time will tell her this truths.. for now, i really upset with the way she behaved in the media..

Hi,
If u guys are calling Chiranjeevi or any other celebrity then i hiink he should back this marriege or else he will not be a legend or whatever any more, ok lets be practical, in his movies he shows all this non-sense which has happened, if he goes against them then why is he doing that kind of movies, if a person's mind has some impact with his movies then chiranjeevi is palying spoil kind of stuff with his movies, i know this is rubbish but the fact is this and i dont think he even deserves sympathy also......

To: Stop the blody crap.

Which stock you want,US OR India.
Let me know. I could also send a free book on Greenspan.

Dear Mr Krishna

I have gone through your article when one of my friends accusing me for writing that. So I am clarifying to all that I DID NOT WRITE THIS SILLY INCONCLUSIVE AND IMMATURE ARTICLE WHICH DOES NOT CONVEY ANY MESSAGE. But I have seen the real middle class american mentality in KRISHNA.

KRISHNA WHAT IS THE POINT YOU WANT TO CONVEY HERE MAN?????

DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA????

I remember one great story from CHANDAMAMA of my childhood times...

One guy like you invited some saints who visited his place for lunch. So obviously he need more milk to serve to those saints. So the milk woman was carrying it to his home and on the way
something happen which she is not aware of. An eagl catches a snake and flying over the women and the snake spits its venum and those dropping fall through the clothed cover of the pot in to the milk.
Now all the saints died. ( Your Family did not because you are a smart host and you dont eat unless the guest finishes). SO NOW THE BETHALA PUTS A QUESTION TO VIKRAMARKA

WHO HAS TO BLAME FOR THIS.

OFCOURSE NO ONE IS THE ANSWER.

BUT THAT ANSWER IS NOT VALID FOR THE PRESENT CONTEXT ACCORDING TO MANY HERE.

BEFORE WE COMMENT ANYTHING WE SHOULD ASK THE FOLLOWING TO OURSELVES

1. WHY SHOULD I BOTHER ABOUT THIS MARRIAGE?? (answer honestly)


2. IS THERE ANY MORAL HERE TO LEARN AND PRACTICE?

3. IF NOT, WHY I AM WASTING MY TIME HERE, INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON MY OWN LIFE GOALS?

MY answeres will be forwarded soon as I started asking myself now :)

This is completely family issue and everybody needs to ignore this as their personal family problem.

This is totally family issue, and if we talk about truth, both sides have their own fear about other and all this happend.

Guys My email address is ourfunis@yahoo.com ( created for receiving your criticism... because I am not like CHIRU to run away from criticism because I am in public already)
Here are my answers

1 &2 . WHY I AM BOTHERED BY THIS INCIDENT ? IS THERE ANY MORAL TO LEARN ?

For me: It makes me feel happy because I am a FAN of UDAY KIRAN (Another greedy guy like suresh). Chiranjeevi played a MEGA ROLE in him putting him in low profile for no valid reason. I can not forgive him for this. Because I thought chiranjeevi is good guy. So Now I consider that he is answered by FATE. You can win using your money for some time but not all the time. This episode tells me that HE GROWN LIKE MEGA STAR in his career but forgot to take care of his only family like a MEGA FATHER.

Our stars get lot of training for so many stupid things (swimming, karate judo, horse riding, dances of all stupid kind ) which they really not needed for good "acting". But they fail to get training how to Raise their children or how to become a good father or mother.

Somebody is question about moral values earlier but remember HUMANITY IS THE HIGHEST. MORAL VALUES are only for middle class egoistic hypocracy filled with strong stupid attitude.
IF YOUR CHILD IS NOT SLEEPING WITH ANYBODY MAKES HER/HIM AS A GOOD HUMAN BEING. Realizing the importance of human life and understanding and practicisng their role in the society is very very important. Unfortunately OUR So called (sex) psychologist SAMARAM also reacted like a middle class person but not like a clinical psychologist on this issue.

Basically here the issue is not SIRISH OR SRIJA OR HER MEGA FATHER

Issue is what is happening to the society and to us

That is what is bothering to lot of PARENTS and they are trying to answer to themselves HOW I WOULD HAVE BEHAVED IN THIS.

Let us think for a while on these characteristics

Sirish: Everybody worries about him whether he is a good guy or a bad one??

The answer is he is doing his hard work and planning for his GOALS. SO it does not matter. All those idiots who have no goals in their life are showing so much concern about this guy.
HE IS THE BEST REPRESENTATIVE OF THE PRESENT INDIAN YOUTH (60-75%)
HE IS A GUY WORKING ON HOW TO GET EASY MONEY AND HE HAS HIS OWN PLANS. SO HE IS A SUCCESSFULL ONE SO FAR. But TIME WILL ANSWER HIS REAL MOTIVES LATER. I dont worry about this guy at all. Because he has 100-200% survaivability than those silly guys barking in these websites.

SRIJA: HIGHLY CONFIDENT AND VERY SELF RESPECTING INDIVIDUAL WITH LOT OF ATTITUDE. However, she is honest to herself. She is not regreting to any of her actions. HOW MANY OF THOSE IDIOTS COMMENTING ON HER really can do like this????? Think Honestly.. Crores of rupees and a comfortable life was just turned downed by her at the age of 19 itself WHY ???? So for me she is not representing that 60-75% crap youth. Whatever happens, I am sure that she can SURVIVE IN THIS LIFE BETTER THAN ANYBODY ( MAY BE MUCH BETTER THAN HER MEGA FATHER ).

CHIRANJEEVI: This fellow is a hard core professional in his career. I am sure he is a dictator at industry as well as at home too. Honestly speaking he is the guy who needs to learn something out of it. That is HUMANITY.
But it does not matter as he is a MEGA STAR he can act that part very easily. He is doing that already. But question is what are his plans for SIRISH???
That is the only thing worrying me.
However, there is no need to show sympathy on him as he is considering this incident as his personal and hence needs privacy from all. HE HAS ENOUGH MONEY AND SO CALLED NAME AND FAME IN THE SOCIETY. SO He can easily come back again (even on sirish and uday kiran too). TIME WILL CERTAINLY PROVE IT.


NOW MEDIA: They are doing their job. If TV9 is not released those tapes and put in to the brains of AP VIEWERS...By now SIRISH COULD HAVE BEEN HISTORY (Looks like he is still having life on this earth that is what is saving him). So I really congratulate the media in this episode. But the question is will they do the same JUSTICE TO ALL YOUNG COUPLE WHO RUN AWAY FROM FAMILIES???? It is a million $ question. But I have some trust in media now a days.

100% MARKS TO MEDIA IN THIS EPISODE.

CHIRU FANS: THYE ARE WORRYING TOO MUCH. Because his own girl exposed his true behavior in public. So the people who want to benefit from him are reallly upset. These people are real danger to Sirish and Srija couple. That is what the couple are afraid off. There is 100% truth in it. So CHIRU HAS TO CONTROL THESE IDIOTS INSTEAD OF WOORRYING ABOUT HOW TO CONTROL SRIJA AND SIRISH. Anyway he can control everyone in the end.

MIDDLE CLASS PUBLIC/PARENTS: Dont worry too much about your sons and daughters. After seeing these web postings I am confident that our middle class people will never change for another 50 years in their so called value based system which really never helped to the society in any way.
I am very confident about your way of raising the children. Usually your children are timid and shy and having no self confident except Hypocracy. SO STOP THE CONSPIRACY THEORIES ON SIRISH and his family and unnecessary sympathy on SRIJA.

NOW ANSWER TO 3Q

IF NOT WHY I AM WASTING TIME HERE.

Because I am also from middle class and I want to show to so my so called intellectuality here. Honestly I am not wasting my time by writing this. Please try to understand that there is nothing new in this incident except SIRISH becoming a WINNER (so far). That is what most of the people are not able to digest and pouring un necessary analysis on him.

Basically , it will die down eventually unless SIRISH IS KILLED IN SOMEBODY's HAND LATER IN HIS LIFE. That is a reality which he has to face through out his life that LIFE IS NOT CINEMA. HE WILL FACE THE CRUEL REALITY OF LIFE VERY SOON IF HE IS NOT CAREFUL WITH SRIJA. Srija is his life now. WITH OUT HER BLESSINGS HE CAN NOT SURVIVE. He should remember this always. Now without Srija he can not survive anymore.

Thanks for your attention.

Now I will highly appreciate if you can write your comments without using bad words and unnecessary words

CORRECTION:

Sorry I have noticed that some words/sentences were missed while typing so fast. Sorry for the typo errors.

Actually what I am saying at middle class parents who are worrying about the dating part.

If your child is not sleeping with any one does not make you look good. May be morally he/she is ok. But that is nothing at all if he/she has a bad personality on many important issues of this society. That is loosing temper and having attitude and inferiority complex and somany other issues are there to put you(PARENT) down.

I dont mind if my child is morals(about sexual life) are wrong but if they are danger to the society through their behavior then I WORRY A LOT.

So marrying somebody without my consent is not at all issue anywhere. The ISSUE IS "EGO AND FALSE PRESIEGE AND MIDDLE CLASS MENTALITY etc...MOST OF THE PEOPLE WHO ARE SHOWING IN THESE WEBSITES IS A REAL ISSUE"

I am not saying that our value system is wrong.
WE belong to Bharata's Dynasty...
I hope you guys know what is the story of BHARAT. His mom Shakuntala become pregnent with out the approval of his father. But the father is not like chiru and his this GREAT DYNASTY HAS FORMED.

So basically my point is ...chiranjeevi is not up to the mark. He dont have to.

BUT THE SO CALLED PARENTS WHO R RESPONDING TO THIS INCIDENT ARE ALSO NOT UP TO THE MARK. So my comments are for them.

ARE YOU RAISING YOUR CHILD UP TO THE MARK ????? HOW MANY PARENTS REALLY COME UP PROUDLY AND SAY THAT I AM CONFIDENT OF MY CHILDREN?????

80% PARENTS ARE NOT SURE. If they are sure I am 100% sure that these comments-websites would have been closed long time back. Basically BASED on your fears, somebody is making more money oN that. Realize that. ( More clicks more ratings and hence more chances for advertizements - means more money ) That is why I gave my email address.

I hope that i cleared my point.

Srinivas,

I am not sure from where you got the wrong information about uday kiran episode. Chiru is really a very soft hearted(or chicken hearted) person even in real life. Uday kiran got married to a journalist before he got engaged to chirus daughter. His wife threatened him that she would disclose their marriage to everyone if the marries chirus daughter. Chiru's family came to know about udaykirans marriage after the engagement and they recalled the marriage.
Even now uday kiran says chiru is his favorite actor and he is his inspiration. Dont know the facts about udaykirans downfall after engagement break. You know maybe a small revenge from chiru's family for what he has dont to his family. This is acceptable.Atleast chirus family did not come out and disclose the true facts about uday kiran.
If mohanbabu was in chiru place and if he would have knew about his daughter's affair a year ago , sirish name would not have been there in the voters list.
Its not only mohanbabu any father from rayalaseema would have done the same thing...Today sirish could marry srija becoz of the soft nature of chiru...you know now I feel "Chiranjeevi di methaka tanam kaadu but chetha kaani tanam ani" I dont know how many of them agree with me.

Kavitha

kavithaji

Namasthe :)

All I said is I am unahppy with what he did to UDAY KIRAN's Career.

I dont care who is wrong in that. Appears to be you have a very unnecessary softcorner towards Chiru and no heart towards UDAY.

Just out of curiocity, if Uday kiran is married, why media never mentioned about that fact??? Where is his wife???
Was he divorced ???? Does she have a name???? Why she is not coming out LIKE NANDINI (PKs wife)??? WHERE IS SHE NOW??? OR HAVING FEAR OF UDAY KIRAN THAT HE WILL USE HIS INFLUENCE AND KILL HER ?????

:)

Sorry madam you are living in a world of your own imaginary CHIRU UNIVERSE.

Sorry to say that you have to grow up in thinking.

Dont diverse your attention to silly issues than focussing on what I am saying. ISSUE HERE IS NOT CHIRANJEEVI OR HIS FAMILY. WHAT IS OUR RESPONSIBILITY IN THE SOCIETY. SPREAD SOME MORE RUMORS WITH OUR OWN IMAGINATION???? OR
BRING OUT SOME LOGICAL AND PRACTICAL THINKING ABOUT A SITUATION AND IMPROVE THE STANDARDS OF UNDERSTANDING AND HENCE LIVING

CHOICE IS YOURS

IT IS A FREE GIFT :)

Srinivas,

For your kind information I am not living in an imaginary world nor I am not here to spoil the society with my 10 lines comment. As a matter of fact we have a leading movie website(Couldnt resist to tell you this). We get news from the film world everyday from reliable sources.I dont make up things and I dont have time to do that as well.
Coming to your Question I dont know why TV9 did not leak uday kiran news , I dont know why uday kiran's wife did not give a statement like nandini...maybe she would come out after 5yrs like nandini ..I dont have answers to your Y's. But THIS IS THE FACT. Its upto you to believe it or not and I dont care. I am not here to convince you.
I normally wouldnt post like this but after seeing your looong comment and so called discussion I couldnt not resist myself.You have written as if everything happened before you.
Anyway I dont want to drag this discussion any more.

FYI : I am not chiranjeevi's fan or AC. I am just a parent like him.

About Sakuntala:

I am not saying tht WHAT she DID WAS right.

If father has a mental maturity like KANVA MAHARSHI, AMY Daughter will survive like sakunthala. So one has to have that kind of DARING ATTITUDE Towards Society.

I am sure that our so called WEB BASED INTELLECTUALS WOULD HAVE BRANDED SHAKUNTALA (if she did the same thing today) as SHAKUNTALA IS TRYING TO STEAL MONEY FROM RAJA DUSHYANTA and hence black mailing the king.

In fact many people might have told her the same at that time too.

SO basically problem is not new one. Only faces are new. Places are new Concepts are new here. BUT SHAME OLD RACHHA BANDA DISCUSSION WITH SAME OLD MENTAL ATTITUDES (Majority).

Kavithaji

Sorry if I hurt your feelings.

When I mean Chiru Universe
means SMALL WORLD OF OUR OWN.
That is exactly what you confirmed later.

How much we can trust a source ? WHat is the motive of that SOURCE??

Everywhere The motive in this society is making money.

MAKING MONEY OUT OF SOMETHING
THE BEST THING TO MAKE MONEY IS NOW A DAYS NEWS STORY

You are right about CHIRU "HE IS TOTALLY IN CAPABLE"

That is what exactly I am focusing on.

If I am THE FATHER of Srija I would have taken care of the issue like Rajendraprasad in AA NALUGURU MOVIE.

Mr. Srinivas

You are not practical.

Every father or mother knows about their children. They know what is good for them and what is not.

They(parents) try to cover up their faults and forgive their mistakes and raise them with lot of love and affection. Looks like you are still un married. That is why thinking very ideally. Not like a REAL FATHER.

So that is why he is really worrying about his lovely daughter falling in the wrong hands.

My kids hate me whenever I said NO to them. But later they realize and happily say mom is right and I am wrong at that time.

Because WE CAME TO THE WORLD BEFORE THEM AND HENCE WE KNOW BETTER THAN THEM.

So no middle class family can ever appreciate SRIJA's action.

Srinivas,

i do accept your comments but partially....because
but your points were really valid ....
and helpful.....one should strongly respect parents ........there is no secondary expression in it......


1.each parent or person has his or her own way of doing things.as you said it is society not family

making mistakes is never ending.....
no person or human being is perfect in this world/universe.

As a parent one should not get infactuated to too much name ,fame ,money but he or she also need to participate and involve with commom man,
and ancient practices of hindu culture with true heart.children follows it...some times due to age of kali..they might opt wrong direction for short or long span ......and come back and start
behaving right way or which is acceptable to society and culture...
it doesn't matter if it is middle class
or celebrity or legend one should get real recognition only if he or she acts
right way .....here i would prefer to quote an example:GOLD is expected to go through process to get recognised to be gold.in that process it needs to be burnt in fire.

Legendary Parents should realise that their activieties is impacting society.
and our cultural values........
Bharata varsam.......greatest of the world.......

if some body likes some one and in a possition to take any sort of bold step
let it happen ....it has no impact on any kid....it has impact only on those who has same interest because of their past....from this what i see is.....as no body is able to practice parents atleast if they make kids to practice certain basic things like preaching bhagavat geeta from child hood which our elders have followed for ages....then every thing is taken care .........
every body is free in this modern age
as no body is perfect we can not really
conclude by atleast considaring these sort of activities of kids.......
i am 100% with you saying kids are kids
but they do miracles some times....what it is time only says.......

too much of moderanisation is not a good sign at all......

kids should under stand good always looks non attractive than bad ....

learn from some body's life.....
be wise ....if you have doubt get it clarified from elders whome you believe...from your and immediate family member.......in olden ages Guru use to guide with out any bias.....

parents should set the goals for the kids basically.... right time and right way.......and leave....interfere.......spend time with kids.....help help help them....
they fall and later they run......

nothing is closed in this world.......

media has done absolutely right thing......i am with you with that point too......

Parents be careful what you do .......
family is just not making money,name and fame .........it is responsibility in both good and bad situations........
to handle ......but not to react......
but be courageous

also don't restrict your mind .......by controling senses.......it is practice....irrespective of age and gender.......

think of real hero's like
SWAMI VIVEKANANDA'S inspiring personality......

http://www.ramakrishna.org/sv.htm

thanks for the opportunity as a mother
of 2 kids and responsible citizen of india .....i follow each word what i have written.......

kids are sesitive handle with care......

regards
S ...vani

note:small correction

kids:
help them....they fall some times....but finally they ......win the (right) life goal

s........vani

Neeluji

You are right.

I am do not have children but I do have lot of cats.

I will let u know How I handled situation with them.

First time I allowed them to GO OUT when my 8 months old Kitty is on Heat. Yes it is true Life cycle is fast in them. So it came back and become pregnent and 6 more kittens in another 4 months and all died because of what I dont know ( may be too early pregnency) and including the mother.

After seeing this my wife fixed the other Kitties

I hate to do that. I believe in Freedom. Not stoping their desire using surgeries. We found another kittie on the street. IT is very sweet and friendly. We brought her to home and now it is on heat. This time I become little more matured. But the cat is becoming rebel.

So Neelu ji tell me what should I do ?

I am not a real father but I am afraid that it may die prematurely like the other cat. But at the same time I am not following their(animal) society rules. Should I leave this cat in the woods? OR should held the cat in the home for a year like chiranjeevi

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

YOU KNOW A LOT AS A MOTHER
PLEASE ADVISE ME

hi,
i can still see the look on the chiru's elder daughter's face when she is getting married.she is literally crying on the day of marraige as her marraige with uday kiran broke up[whomever is responsible is different issue].
uday is 1000 times better than sirish & that marraige should have been accepted.now 2nd daughter marries a guy so inferior looking ,nowhere close to the mega family,with criminal cases on him,that too at the same time nbk's daughter got married to ex.c.m.s son.that is a real blow to chiru.
now i hear that charan is in love with dutt's daughter.dutt's family is very respectable family & if he proposes this girl to chiru,better accept that alliance,before they do something stupid like this.if chiru wants to enter politics,he has to be clean too [till now no major defects in him] & he needs a richman like dutt to fulfill his ambition.i wish them all the success.
all the best chiru
bobby

Namasthe Sri Vaniji


Glad that u used this platform for a right cause and for showing right direction to parents.

But how many really understand what u r conveying ??

Present society needs PUNCH LINES AND CATCHY CAPTIONS

Do u really think that Ramakrishna marg will help these people

Mr Srinivas

It may be a good idea for you to listen to your wife in this issue instead of using your own intellegence

Goodluck

In this web site and in hind news paper Uday kiron gave his own accord two years after Uday's down fall and I am a distant relative of Uday kiran. First UDay denied about nivedita but after two years he him self agreed and said" Yes i am in love and my first picture beceame hit and I was every where with her showing my pictures on the posters. But suddenly their parants got her married to a software professional. And chiranjeevis sir knows about this. These are his words if you dig this website archives you will see. But the same guy denied in the begining. It is surekha who cancelled the engagement because of his previous affair. But he is not married to Nivedita. The reason is Uday became close in the chiru circle he even on the dias on "Indras" 100 function in Vijyawada. People blame chiru for his down fall that is natural. If it is Mohan Babu things would have different. I really support people like Mohanbabu, Rajasekar reddy. Because they can take actions. I am not fan of chiru or Mohan Babu. I simpathise with chiru, as his daughter acting like an idiot and dancing to the tunes of sirish and his father.

Kavithaji

THis is Different Srinivas I dont know anything of this. I dont even care.

So my logical doubt is
WHY UDAY TRY TO HIDE IT AND LATER HE ACCEPTED IT?

This is how we raise our children.
Hypocracy. We feel ashamed to tell that we are infatuation in the begining

There is nothing wrong having some attraction in that age. But denying it leads to problem.

We are so afraid to tell these things or discuss these things with our would be. Then we are for sure land in problem.

And if that girl is married how does it matters to Sushmitha?

Still something is missing here which is of no USE TO ANYONE NOW.

WHAT MATTERS IS IS THERE ANYTHING TO LEARN FROM THIS?????

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING IF IT IS TRUE

Neeluji

Thanks for your advice. I am putting S initial behind mine because another srinivas came up with some story on UDAY

Uday kiran was not interested in marrying chiru's daughter.But chiru' daughter fell in love seeing UK's movies and convinced her father. Chiru and his brother then put pressure on uday kiran. After engagement like a typical movie villian chiru and PK maligned Uday's image and tried changing daughter's mind. Also ruined UK's carrer. For doing the above God has treated Chiru this way in form of Srija. Srija has seen all this before in the form of her sister. She knew her parents won't agree for her getting married to a middle class fellow and one who is a Brahmin. That is why she eloped. I know love is blind but can't understand how sirish can love one who is not beautiful and a girl who is from another community. is it for money? not sure. But I think UK was right in rejecting Chimpu's daughter.

I agree with the fact that it might have been bad planning on her part, and a wee bit foolish of her to run off like that but I don�t understand what (" middle-class, outside-the-caste boy of 22")... being middle class and being a different "caste" have to do with anything?!!!!!
Caste and social status is not the issue here and its just stupid for the writer of this article to be foolish enough to mention this, especially in 21 century India, one would think people are past thinking this way.. When you are writing on a public site like this, try not to sound biased because you will end up sounding like a complete idiot and spare yourself the emberrassment.

Srinivas gaaru,

Absolutely it works......
it is same soil,same people,same minds and same culture.............

That is truth ....true heart,mind ,dedication.....always works......

but each person style of doing things varies......

many students they are preaching ...and following Bhagavatgeeta .....through socities like Ramakrishna matt,iskon...

at some point of time if this site is alive i would really come out and show you the group of people who follows exact traditions....right from cloths till food....
and still perform all activities of this modern age far more better way than this altra modern personalities are doing....

There is super personality who is the one who rules this universe.....

it works far better than to perform activities of life with mere conciousness of supreme personality...

when others could follow and see why not we......

Abdul Kalam saab is one of such great personalities...who preaches Bhagavat geeta....many western poets ,politicians,scientists have written about power of Bharat and vedas and Bhagavat geeta....it is we need to become aware and open our eyes ........

21st century doesn't mean people over act by taking the term modernisation....
it is finding better way of helping and co operating.....not that we fight like
demons....which is far less than lower species of animals......they atleast fight and get along with in no time.........

19h century is not far away from 20th and 21st century.......

that is i took Swami Vivekananda,who denies he was greatest....

There are no shot cuts for any thing in this world....only proven shotcut is Bhakti and mode of life and mind


Kids follow what we do.....and in the process of course they do it more perfect way.....


S....vani

Vaniji

Namasthe. Thanks for your confidence. People like you only can change this world. I can see your point more clearly. I appreciate your thoughts.

My only concerns previously was website like this has only personal motives. But now I could see through your message that with positive force we can nullify the negative force.

You are 100% right. Kids need direction. But parents should also need directions. Just having children means nothing. At the same time contributing physically economically and emotionally also not help them completely. Giving a right direction is the best thing.

That is why it is well said by our saint

Among all Daanams only VIDYAA DANAM IS PRADAANAM.

Means not just providing education ....But the right education about world and their role in the world. Once everybody understands this, I am sure that nobody will have any doubts and search for their own peace and love in "themselves" not outside.

Because we believe in

AHAM BRAHMOSMI

How to reach there ....that journey is nothing but LIFE

i want add one more sensible comment
Tyagaraja 1759 - 1847 lived during this period.i.e just 100 years prior to getting independence to india.Does this makes wakes up the mind ???for me it worked...far more better than i thaught.....so it should work for any other person who really practices Bhagavatgeeta....need not be perfect way...but sincerely......
There was a gap from 19th century onwards our elders did not follow what their elders followed...forgot to preach and guide thier kids....so it is not a problem to get it back......


Hope this atleast wakes up Parents .......

S.....vani

Srinivas gaaru,

you got the point.....
what ever you have written before this message absolutely right........

believe ....Krishna guides you.......
every body......
HARE KRISHNA HARE KRISHNA
KRISHNA KRISHNA HARE HARE

do you know our so called legends right from Dheeru Bai Ambani till Amitabh ji
are following iskon....or Ramakrishna Matt....so associate.....open eyes more sensibly....not making kids to hurry up to get ranks.......it doesn't makes any sense at all.........

one need to have passion and caurage.....what less we have in india and indian soil.....indeed we have every thing beyond any other part of world has..........we need to wake up so many souls and kids.........

food offer to krishna and eat,
chant hare krishna manthra thats all...
so easy to start with......

S....vani

Vaniji

You are right but

that can help for fraction of people in Hinduism (even among Hindus). If you want to address all then you have to focus only ON

MEDITATION AND YOGA AND PRANAYAAMA

Infact I thought you are talking about Vivekananda's RAJA YOGAM.

Simple version in any religion is PRAYER worshipping their own GOD in their own capacity and having belief in positive force.

I personally feel that Chiranjeevi should focus on RAJA YOGAM and I am sure he can be a great positive leader of AP.

Also CHIRANJEEVI is not focussing on his strengths ... That is real problem with him. He is like HANUMAN. He has certain Charishma which he can use for the upliftment of lot of drown todden through out the AP.

In fact, HE IS THE ONLY GUY WHO HAS THE PEOPLE FORCE BEHIND HIM AND IF GIVES ONE STATEMENT ABOUT UNITED ANDHRA ( the same way NTR did - I consider the only best thing NTR did was keeping telugu people UNITED)

He can use his POWER on these KIND OF POSITIVE WORKS, BUT NOT ON SIRISH OR UDAYKIRAN OR Jr. NTRs Stupid records.

A DIRECT MESSAGE TO CHIRANJEEVI:

You are like Hanuman YOu dont know your POWER. YOU CAN DO LOT OF GOOD THINGS USING YOUR CHARISHMA. PLEASE DONT WASTE THEM. USE THEM FOR UNITING PEOPLE. USE THEM TO WASH AWAY PEOPLE LIKE KCR OR NARENDRA OR OTHER ANDHRA SIDE SEPARATE MOVEMENT IDIOTS.

CHOICE IS UP TO YOU MAN. JOIN WITH CPI AND CPM AND BRING THEM TOGETHER AND HELP POOR PEOPLE. I AM SURE YOU WILL HIT A BIG SUCCESS IN POLITICAL CAREER.
KEEP THE STATE UNITED. WE WILL HELP YOU IN ALL RESPECTS FROM ABROAD FOR THIS GREAT WORK FROM OUR SIDE.

GOOD LUCK

I forgot to mention:

RAJAYOGAM : It is not any religious cermony. It is a way on how to control yourself and if possible do some good to people. Any religious person can perform this without giving up her/his beliefs/faiths.

IN AP Right now Vivekananda math is promoting this technique to ordinary masses. It is always good to learn this technique through a GURU who has THRIKARNA SUDDI.

Srija and Nandini are the two ladies from the family of Chiranjeevi who have been creating chaos in media. But why they do that? Should we call that sadism or ignorance? If we term that 'sadism' why would it occur?
When enquired from the friends of Srija, it was said that she is very fair at heart and never carries airs of a mega star's daughter. If so, why would she defame her father? Does she know that she is defaming him? Or is she simply being carried away by the blues of teenage?
And the answer is Srija is not ignorant about her father's image. She ignored that while choosing her freedom!

What about Nandini? Why she started turbulence after five years of separation with Pawan Kalyan? The answer is not Nandini but only her father.

When probed into the ins and outs it can be suspected that these two ladies must have received stern blow from the elders in the family. They might have faced domestic tyranny. And we may also say that they must have mentally troubled at home. Otherwise, women never venture to defame their own family and get into court of law seeking justice.
Although Srija and Nandini appear to be villains for many, the reality may be different. Srija and Nandini are individually driven ladies who cannot stand in Chiranjeevi's family. It's not just with the matter of Chiranjeevi but applies for many others as well.

Pawan Kalyan's show at Deccan Chronicle office, his revolver episode and his words stating that he can do anything to Sirish (but not doing), his confused approach with CMPF say that he is aggressive, swift and driven wild with situations. Such men lose patience in many occasions and the same may trouble family members as well.

Observing the body language, speech and thought process of people, their attitude can be understood, Chiranjeevi is very conscious, soft and concerned as per his body language. He tries to suppress his anger many times to maintain the image that he is a good, generous and forgiving.

Allu Aravind is a split personality who can act to be pleasant person with face but plays all politics with brain and his real friends are only few in his heart.

And coming to Srija, we can easily infer she is never guilty of her deeds and believes what she does is right. Nandini is not too bold and hence she is not facing camera till now. It's her father who is running the show and the grudge or discomfort of any other feeling in her father's heart is doing all this chaos. Pawan-Nandini case has postponed to next month-which means it's an extension to the tension of Pawan.

(Usha Chowdhary can be reached at usha_chowdhary@hotmail.com )

Hai friends

It is failure of chiru as a father. He went behind money and daughter went behind Sirish. Any woman of Srija's kind wants a person who can share love affection to her which she has missed in the house. A kind of superiority complex is existing in the familymembers who created it?. It is we by worshiping him like god. Otherwise what is Chiranjeevi Afterall a common man worse than Bharadwaj. Is it not true that he also had love affair in his college days. He would have behaved gentle by accepting the daughters selection. Bharadwaj is not a layman he is an engineering graduate. Chiru would have followed Rajnis steps. Though chiru is a celebrity he is also a father. Don't think Srija is immetured and Bharadwaj is an idiot.

Srinivas gaaru,

you are right in few points.........
yes Guru is very important for life....
in this age of kali we do not have bonafide guru's with pure hearts expect few.....so the practice is accept right Guru and his advise .....while making some decession which directly effects society one need to rely on God head....this is not easy but very easy for ones who really under stands yama and niyama....ofcourse this ultimately leads one to practice Raja yoga......

these needs lot of patience and inner travel ,dediction and bhakti....

what ever religion he may be doesn't matter......ultimate is only one power...

because of kali maaya easily ruins ones core competencies......unless he has tight bondage with super soul and devotional activities......which gives lot of self confidence and clear vision..

yes Chiru has some good vision for few things.....he is in mode of goodness.....to acquire vision he need to get in to vanaprastasrama......and practice......being in this mode one can really perform leadership duties without bias.....

last time when i have visited hyderabad
wanted to meet him.but i felt that was still not right time........so steped back.....

yeah of course it is a good idea to forward him this entire discussion through email......remeber we get what we want eventually.....so what we want it is up to us ....to decide......

getting and involving too much in to some bodies personal lifes always created black oura of a man.....unless the purpose is really good one to help society and people .....
so i don't think any body want to aquire negetive personality by thinking about some body's lives crossing some limits..

we should always remember inta gelichi raccha geluvu.....
here the word "gelichi" need to be under stood accept and cooperate to practice acceptable truth....this could be understood only when one practices Bhagavat geeta.

i have already quoted our former president was not an hindu......but why he believed geeta this needs thinking...???he is a scietist and great scholer,simplicity is his core...strength.....

present kaandahaar/gandhar desam....was sekuni's place......you could read geeta to draw in between lines.......so way back there were no religions like this....based on the activity they perform they fall in to respective dharma's.....because of activities....
they perform daya today....they will be ignorent to under stand and follow the actual .....so they were given with dammy gods and different ways of performing devotion.......ultimately every one is expected to come and merge in to Yoga and under stand divinity and divine.....Lord

Smt Indira Gandhi had good opportunity indeed.....but she could not impact the society as much as she suppose to be....
Abdul Kalam saab could really contribute some thing good for the land ....

so politics are not only way to contribute to society...but certains it is a good means to do praja seeva....
Rakshinchu vaadu Raaju.....
Bhakshinchu vaadu Rakshasudu....

Rajuva? Rakkasiva?? ..this is ultimate question our present politicians and of course our legends need to question them selves......

Practicing is ultimate....so one who believes and practices .....is real 'GOD'

"kayakave kailaasa...."ani voka quotation vundi kannada lo....
means work is worship.....this is 100%truth....

i think i have written more information than what i thaught might be needed....
once again thank you so much for the opportunity ........


S....vani

DO PEOPLE REALLY HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO THAN WRITE BOOKS ABOUT THIS?!!!! This has dragged on from Srija issue to meditation?!!!!

and seriously... how exactly did God come into all this?!!!..

The question is How exactly did god come into all this?

I have no explanation. Because Some people pray to GOD to get selfconfidence. Some People realize their selfconfidence and proceed confidently.

It is not GOD what GOOD you can get from this issue.

WHat kind of message you can convey to the public including the people involved in that.

Questioning is very easy. But realizing the answer is very difficult.

Unfortunately, we are living in a society where, People do not have guts to ask questions with their own name. And hence everything always remain SILLY for those.

Hello Mr or Miss Silly,

That is okay if you want to be hiranya kasipu ......you can not stop possitive energy and possitive thinking which is needed by many people and kids.....

Do not forget you too have a mother if not sister or wife or daughter....in your life if not now you had in the past ........that is the base you should remember and start thinking....... mothers milk has great power....to under stand the real purpose of life instead of thinking so much negative about possitive energy....because of your past....

you might have seen in news and movies too how many mothers did not killed their own sons????because of their vague behavior.....?????give it a thaught ???????
who asked you not to harm society????
if that gives you pleasure to do ......
no body would stop you.........

it is your wisdom.......you use it as you like.........

there are bhakta prahlads too in this society........who are capable of showing you "God" in the pillar.....that day you would renounce .........if not your mother could do that ......there would be some xyz would not hesitate or step back to shut your mouth .....


without hiranya kasipu.....how could
Kid Prahlad's devotion would have atleast known by people........???so it is important to have people like you who want to admit themselves as personalities of modern age.....

Devotee's are instruments in the hands of "GOD" do not forget each persolality
took part in their roles during kurukshetra....the day is not far.....
to throw away negetive energy from this
society........

These are real sensible words not meant to degrade you think sensibly.....contribute some thing good
to society.....do not let evil thinking to take upper hand in your life

hope you have not forgot sumami...or katrina......

you did not created this world,land,air,water,souls and human beings......then how would you under stand when you forgot your body is nothing but made up of all these?????
did you ever thaught about it which technology started creating your body and mind???atleast do you have any knowledge how your energy is getting created???looks like you don't respect parents......so how come you guide other parents and their kids????

do you know this writeup would become part/history of future????do not ask me what???i am not going to tell you now....



S.....vani

Dear Parents and kids with possitive energy,

Please look at this url to sense what is going all over the world........
http://www.atmayogi.com/node/456#comment-365

they do hari nama sankirtana in streets???when climate is deepest lows ....burning chilled weater?????

do you know from common person to proffesionals and directors of big companies like ford are involved in such movement??????
when would you open your eyes??????

why do want to mask eyes of innocents???when you can not help them atleast why you want to mis guide them????????

i heard a joke yesterday when i have gone to participate in the discussion bhagavat geeta at one of vishnavas place.....

one individual was inquiring to make a call to "GOD" ...he heard it costs 10,000Rs per minute from USA,CHINA,SINGAPORE like wise from all over the world.....
but when he visited india he heard it is only 1 Rs per minute.....do you have any guess why it is?????so?????
shop owner says....because it is local call from india......from other countries it is international call....

That is greatness of our land.........
it is up to you to opt good or bad.....because it is your life......

be contious about what you do?how you do???observe other possitive personalities.......other wise you would repent when you do not have time any more......

s...vani

Hey guys, this is definitely a bad parenting issue.
What all happend is happend. But Chiranjeevi is making a mistake of taking it too much seriously by not talking to anyone, running round places etc. He should start his normal routine and put the issue behind, if he has any common sense.

Vaniji

Appears to be you are over reacting on this issue.

Certain things should be short and straight to the point.

Too many quotations and too much proud about our country is not necessary here.

We are definetely not GOOD at certain things. What about them.

If we are so good then why our country went in to the foreign rule??

Why our country is facing stupid problems of Caste harrasment, dowry deaths, killing girl kids in some states, and above all why there is no proper law and order which is equal to every one. DO YOU KNOW WHY???
So beating the drums of only spiritual knowledge does not help that much.

Making use of the positive energy means not talking about the past or negative things happening in the society.

To reach to spiritual knowledge one should have basic knowledge. If that is lacking then U end up with SILLY questions only

Hope they stop making movies like 10th class love stories.

Mr.Srinivas & all other talking about Chiru, should talk about your family affairs publicly.And comment on him.

sat_pulp@yahoo.co.in

edo chiru intlo jarige prathy vishaym meeke thelisinatlu comment chesthunnaru. oka manishi elantodo close ga konni rojulu thirigithey gaany theliadu. media vaalla news, gossips kalipi mee abhiprayalaku thaggatluga maluchukuntunnaru. chiru entha public personality ayina athani sontha vishayaal pai comment cheyadam manalone sadism.

mee intlono, chuttallono ilanti snaghatanalu jaragatmleda? antha ideal familiesa meevi?

Gandhi koduku chedu alavatlaku banisayyadanna vishayam thelusa meeku?
athanu entho depressionki gurayyadanta.

jathi ke pitha ayina Gandhi ke sadhyam kanidi oka cinema hero ki ela sadhyam.

Mr Satish

What is your problem? Are you following the messages carefully or just reading between the lines.

I hope that you can understand English.
If that is the case by now you might realize what is going on here.

FYI nobody has any kind of interest in his family matters. All we are telling Everyboyd here is ...STOP TALKING NONSENSE AND START TALKING SOME SENSIBLE THINGS Which everyboyd can Enjoy or realize or follow it.

The way you are worrying is... after reading ramayana asking about What is Sita's relationship with Rama

Mr Srinivas, i know english. and u commented chiru about his personal life.

Srinivas and Srinivas(S) are different?

Then ignore above comments Mr.Srinivas(S)

Any way i didn't mentioned u r name in the first comments.

Why u r commenting on me?

Now I checked your comments.
and I am not interested in that crap

This is turning out to be more like people attacking each other verbally with words rather than discussing..
Anyway, as for the article, total rubbish completely one sided.

Mr.Srinivas(S)

You know, we are all from the same state, and just despite the fact that you might actually share a bit different opinion than other, you don't need to be rude about it towards anyone. I am sure others will respect your opinion as well.
When pointing a finger at others remember that there are 3 others pointing at you..
Respect man.

Srinivas gaaru,

one issue what i have talked about was how to be good parent/justifying parental role:

what i have addressed was how a mother/father/parent could take care of their own family by following some basic principles which were already practiced by our anceters...as we do not have any other proven alternative.
-world accepts indian way of bringing up kids is good.because we raise kids with care,devotion,faith and guidence of bonafide Guru or parent.
we have talked about one way what our anceters practiced ....

we also know there were great scholers in our society and more over the society use to be very cooperative and sharing the love and essentials of day to day needs and politeness,respect to elders....none other culture could prove this in history.

you might have heard in 15 - 16 conturies during vijaya nager emperers they use to sell gold and diaminds in the midst of streets of their kingdom.....this is just 1 example...

and 2nd issue you have raised is National interest:
it is a again sort of revolution for the actions our elders and partially what we have practiced in ignorent mode.

what activities needs to be practiced in what mode ....and what could be easiest way ,how to not get biased when dealing with national issues.....is really vast area.....

hope you have read about civilisations of india
if you are really interested you could go through this url
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_India
we have lot of history....than any other country....

after passing so many hundreds and lacks(yugas) of years and history....don't you think there would be fraction of fade that could happen with respect to any practice because of ignorent activities and mode of people ?????it is not will fully done by any body....just happens....as no single figure is same.....we do not have same thumb print until now....this it self indicates what a wide varity of human beings are produced????distinct personalities.....totally.....different tingue...diifers in needs ,thinking....way of doing things....

Finally,to get to the original fade or some common platform which is accptable
by the society there should be some thing common activity to achieve common
goal.enthusiam,cherishma,power and revolution which crops up in the minds of todays scholers to get back the original color of the universe.....

like how we have got independence by our leaders...there was a good moto.....behind them doing that......
lot of hard work,blood shed by many women ,kids,elders and youngsters....
they never turned back.....hesitating or
thinking we will die....that is the power.....
if you could read auto biography of one such leader and observe keenly......
there was lot of enthusiasm involved because that was right war....the only reason why i took this revolution was we all aware of that.....it went for years....as it was holy.....war...

when you see so much deviation in Bureaucracy and injustice/red tapism don't you think we also have great scholers who would work off the line and forming a group to burn these sort of activities from roots again???

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bureaucracy

so to takeup leadership to deal with such issues....one should have basics especiatlly ethics....

by the way there is other answer for your question why it has happened why the rules have corrupted etc...only best answer i have is lack of control points,timely adjustments and corrections , and (vast) diversified cultures and practices....
over and above most important is stick to ethics....what so ever it may be sort of thinking.....

"ethics" was the main aspect Gandhiji accepted and admited the reason why he adopted vegetarian food .....this has got greater depth and thinking.....one need to read books and digest to understand........

there was lot of work involved ......

i don't think i was emotional...i know it looks kind of emotional.... i will keep my fingures crossed and just pray for the good for the land and society and continue with my charity plans.....of future what to contribute for needy people ....and kids.....
help them to gain confidence to deal with life....and over come bad situations....

it is up to one how they want to be.....

"Desamante matti kadoi desamante manusuloi..."

one of the ways i follow is to mix with people during my stay in hyderabad ,travel in buses to see and feel what a
women ,female student,school going kids ,elderly persons are going through.....
there were times i have opposed to the activity of some body ....that time i could see the cooperation from group of youngsters ,guys ,females etc

then i could sense the feelings of citizens ......hope this gives you an idea.....the energy from where it crops up????

This is what is pure wisdom and democrasy we need to use it for mutual cooperation not to ruin somebodies life and feelings.....at the cost of others....

we have got in to situations where bus drivers and conductors doesn't respect women and young girls who travels in the bus???what the hell we are achieving in the name of modernisation.....???

bus driver doesn't stop bus at stops and he makes women to run behind the bus?????

if you don't respect women,kids and elders whome would you respect???

who cleans our home???it is we....need to.....do that.......and i have admited to contribute being in group.......

this is just an example
i do see lot of contributions who have really contributed good ,being silent and spectaters....


kind regards
S....vani

i commented on people who commented Chiru.

then why Mr.S annoyed?

gummadi kayala donga.....

give me your number. lets talk....

Satish

my email is ourfunis@yahoo.com

send your phone number I will give u a call.

Yes Srinivas ( who wrote some story on Udaykiran episode) is different from Srinivas(s). But some comments made by me on Chiru in the begining with Srinivas name only later added S.

I am not chiranjeevi to shy away and hide.

So be cool man.

Priyaji
Thanks for your commets. I am not rude. We have to be stright to the point but not dumping our so 10+ standard history knowledge.

personal vishayam gurinchi okallaki samadhanam cheppalsina avasaram chiru ke kadu alanti vallevarikee ledu.

evari life vallu choosukunte better. antha kanna cheppadaniki emee ledu.

I don't want to continue this discussion in this cinema web site.

One thing this is its not a right place to discuss about personal things.

I hope others will understand this
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i will reply by mail Mr.S

Vaniji,

I would like to comment on this sensible issue. you have raised.

I am sure Satish and priya will also come out with some solutons for it :)

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bus driver doesn't stop bus at stops and he makes women to run behind the bus?????if you don't respect women,kids and elders whome would you respect???who cleans our home???it is we....need to.....do that.......and i have admited to contribute being in group.
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It is every individuals responsibility.
Not one particular persons responsibility. Yes it is a very important day to day problem we face in India.

My way of looking at it is

1) What is the root cause
2) What are the elements influencing this
3) What is our responsibility
4) How to solve


Root cause: UNEDUCATION. No proper training to GOVERNMENT EMPLOYEES how to behave with public.(opposite is also true).Forget about the women children and oldage people....WHAT ABOUT Physically Handicapped persons??
So basically a kind of take it for granted attitude towards this problem.
So everybody become thickskinned about this.
Factors influencing: 1 Less number of buses vs large number of travellers at peak times. Easy to blame GOVT. but difficult to control the situation unless everybody try to think clearly and practically.
2some Arrogant drivers with no basic civic sense may be truely responsible for this. No control over them to take proper acton.
3.Buses have to cover long trips within traffic jams and ticket issuing points etc etc....So they ignore some times. SOmetimes 2 buses go at the same time thinking that the other guy will cover and result no one stops.

4. There is no common (wo)man protection forece for this :)

What is our responsibility: When population crosse 1.3 billions how to control any system??
It is very difficult
Actually very simple if every one understands and appriciates others job function. If public servants realize that they are doing good service job to public this problem wont exist.

How to solve:
STOP BLAME GAME. START SOME GANDHIGIRI.
If it is a particular area probelm: Then Send flowers to Driver of your route.
Greet him/her everyday and thank them
everyday.Make them feel proud for their services. They should not feel inferior at any time.
Bringing awareness:
Some big personalities like movie actors should come forward and make appeals through advertisements... then it can create some awareness. Request some TV channels to focus on this problem. Make some documentaries and try to show to public every now and then. Everybody should feel that it is their problem. NOt somebody elses problem. Then only it will be solved.

Basically awareness and education and understanding only can help to solve this problem.

These are some thoughts only

Srinivas(S) and Vani,

After looking at your loo----oong posts I was wondering what the heck is going on here.
Srinivas(S)-you started with chiru and ended with a bus driver.

Vani - I dont know how many of them have time to read posts. Madam you are in your own world. Better come out and look around.

I dont understand what you both are trying to convey. Are you going to discuss the problem in our society and find out the solution for them in telugucinema.com discussion board??????

Growup guys. Stop your preachings and use that time for a better purpose.

Hi Shilpa

Thanks for reading all the postings carefully.
YOU SAY :)
Growup guys. Stop your preachings and use that time for a better purpose.
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That is what exactly I am trying to do here.
Thanks for your understanding.

Do you remember the song in one movie (name I forgot may be satyam..Revathi is house wife and fights for a guy who disappears in the train..)
EVARO OKARU
EPUDO APUDU
NADAVARAA MUNDUKU
ATO ITO ETO VAIPU

Srinivas(S),

Read my post again. I said "After looking at your post". I DID NOT READ YOUR POST. i just scrolled thru your post.
Anyway I liked your positive attitude. All the best and do it in right place.

Okay Srivas gaaru,

thanks for the opportunity,and by the way the comments what i have added is only meant for the parents and kids....and persons who has national interest.
others who has no interest please ignore it.......
Thanks for keeping your self open and
interactive.....

takecare

bye
s..vani

HELLO mr satish,srinivas(S),s.vani ji,shilpa ji.

hey you people didn't hit the point can we have one more round of discussion......?
:)

stupid,
USELESS
SHAMELESS,
BRAINLESS People on this planet including me.

Jobless freeks (me too). within few days everything will be covered with 1 or 2 hit movies from Chiru's family and more blood donation camps.

All we middle class fellas are the fools to waste time on this article and some idiots argue as if their character has been lost.

Chiru character is different in real life compared to movies.

Why should he act in movies where he himself(as a rickshaw fellow) loves a rich girl and there are many more moviews by which many people are effected by watching his movies.

Then obviously it has effected his family. chiru will act in love stories and people watch those movies and tortures girls as per the movies.


If you doing or acting whatever may be the business. Dont cheat general public, if so it will have equal opposigte reaaction.

Thats wht happend with chiru.

Though Iam a grt fan of chiru, after his approach to daughters made everyone understood, the reality of him.